During a time of loss, following the basic rules of etiquette become even more important to preventing adding to a mourner's pain. However, the internet has changed the game by offering opportunities for sharing that have never been navigated before. As you help prepare for a loved one's funeral, use these tips to ensure that your online interactions demonstrate respect for the deceased and those who are grieving.

Delay Making a Public Announcement

When a sudden or unexpected death occurs, it may be tempting to post an immediate announcement to let everyone know what has happened. However, those closest to the deceased should never receive the news by reading it online. First, make sure that the person's immediate family has already been informed, hopefully privately while in the comfort of others who can provide them with support. Then, you may express your condolences after the person's family has acknowledged the death.

Consider Listing Funeral Arrangements Online

Obituaries in the newspaper are still a widely popular way to let everyone know about the arrangements. However, more people are turning to the internet for the news. This means that it is appropriate for a person's family and friends to post information regarding where and when the funeral services will be held. Sharing the information online is often the best way to inform as many people as possible without having to burden a family member with making multiple phone calls during their time of grief.

Be Respectful with Public Posts

It is common for online memorials to serve as a gathering place for people to post their thoughts. However, it is important to think hard about how what you post may be perceived. While you may think that picture of you celebrating a past anniversary with your ex who recently passed is a great memory, their current widow may not think so. Use good judgment when you make a public post because people are more sensitive when they are grieving. If you are unsure what is appropriate, simply skip leaving a message or go with the traditional, "They will be missed" kind of post.

During a time of loss, the internet can be an asset or it can drive another nail into an already broken heart. Make sure that your actions reflect the kindness and love of the person who has passed so that everyone can view your online activities as honoring their memory. To learn more, contact services like Holcombe-Fisher Funeral Home.